In the complex world of dating, as females we’ve all found ourselves interested in a guy who, for whatever reason, is not interested in us. We spend a lot of time agonizing over this guy instead of looking at the signs he gives off saying he’s not interested in us. To save time, and unnecessary heartache, here are some primary signs he’s just not that into you:
He Rarely, or Never, Calls
He Never Wants to be Alone
If the fellow you’re interested in only sees you in group settings, it’s a good bet he doesn’t want to be alone with you. When a guy is interested in a girl, he wants to spend time alone with her. And not just to be intimate; spending time alone lets you get to know each other. It also allows you both to determine if you’re compatible – in interests, philosophies, goals, and ambitions – before you start the intimacy dance.
He Doesn’t Want to be Intimate
He Doesn’t Want to Hear Your Opinions
Someone hearing what you say is critical to a healthy, long-term relationship. If the object of your interest has only shallow, superficial conversations with you and appears disinterested when you voice an opinion, he’s not looking at you as a potential relationship partner. Time to throw this one back into the dating pool and start over.
Let’s face it – dating is hard, and the chances that someone will hurt you are high. Why let yourself in for heartache, when you can tell if a guy is interested before you get too involved? Not every guy you like is going to like you back – that’s just a given; using these signs lets you find out early on if the object of your interest is actually interested in you as well. Concentrate on guys who do seem to be into you. Look for these four signs before you dive in too deep. It will save you from a lot of unnecessary pain.
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