When women have sex with each other, it’s not like it’s portrayed in porno movies made for men. The truth is that lesbians are as versatile, creative and adventurous with their love making as people of any other sexuality are. Some like it soft and sensual with little or no penetration. Others like it hard and often engage in role play, where they may explore masculine and feminine identities. BDSM is also popular among lesbians with many enjoying experiences as a top, bottom or switch. In fact, it’s safe to say that women can recreate any sex act involving a man, or even two men, especially with toys designed for that purpose.

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Dildos and vibrators come in an array of sizes, shapes, colors, textures and functions. Whether you want a six inch rainbow colored silicon penis impersonator or a foot long tentacle like vibrator, the world is your proverbial sex toy oyster. Or, should I say, clam? Many of these toys can be used manually. But for women who love the sensation of penetrative love making, there is nothing like a good quality, strap on harness to make that a very real possibility.

The strap on

Women who enjoy the role as a top most often use strap ons. They are the ones who want to penetrate their partner. Not just providing her with the pleasure of deep love making. But often they enjoy the fantasy of the dildo they’ve strapped on, being an actual extension of themselves. While for some women, taking on a male role, can be erotic and a huge turn on, that’s not always the reason why some women like to strap it on. Even the most feminine women can enjoy the experience of penetrating another woman. There is a sense of power that comes with giving her that pleasure of vaginal or anal penetration.

Oral penetration can also turn on lesbian and bisexual women as well. Kneeling in front of another woman, who has a handful of her hair and taking on the submissive role of sucking their strapped on penis is a scene that can arouse a submissive woman due to the power play and the hot sexual tension it creates.

Don’t think the pleasure is one way, though. A well fitted strap on harness with a good quality dildo or vibrator can ensure that every thrust results in clitoral stimulation for the wearer. This means that whether they are penetrating or being sucked, they have the potential to have an orgasm. The best part of all is that a strap on penis never gets soft. For some women, nothing could make them hotter than the idea of hammering girlfriend doggy style until they both reach screaming orgasms and then, not stopping until they get there again.

Do you need a strap on?

If you are a woman who has sex with women and you fantasize about sex, as a top, it may be time for you to head down to a specialist sex shop and get yourself fitted for a strap on harness. The fit definitely is the most important part, which is why some women opt to have them custom made. It’s important that the harness you purchase will stay in place and won’t move around much. You don’t want a wild banging session to come to an embarrassing halt because your penis just fell off.

The best harnesses have the option to use adjustable rings so that different sizes of dildo can be used. Once you have your harness, it’s up to you how you wish to use it. You can get smaller, thinner probes for anal love making. You can use big fat silicone penis shaped dildos for some hardcore vaginal love making. Some strap on harnesses and dildos even make double penetration a possibility. The one thing you won’t want to forget to put into your shopping basket is good quality lube. You’ll be able to make love to her for hours and you won’t want to wear her out.

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