Analingus, rimming and sometimes, affectionately referred to as ‘tossing the salad’ is all about the butt. Considered taboo and highly naughty, once tried, it’s dangerously addictive. Oh yes! I’m talking about kissing, licking, sucking and the general eating out of the back door entrance that all of us possess. Rimming is delightfully arousing and unbelievably hot. You only need to get past your initial preconceptions that it’s dirty or wrong. Not that ‘dirty or wrong’ aren’t fun too.
Rimming is a combination of oral sex and anal play. Most sexually active adults have had oral sex. Over a third have had anal sex. Therefore, combining the two shouldn’t be too shocking a step towards even more sexual pleasure. Just like oral sex with the genitals, both giving and receiving can be pleasurable activities. Though receiving is probably just a little bit more fun.
Whenever you involve the butt, cleanliness is the rule of the day. You want it to look clean, smell clean and taste clean. And the only way to do that is to ensure that it is clean. So get down there and have a good thorough wash before even thinking of letting your partner start exploring. Keeping the area smooth and hair free also helps to keep it clean, so don’t forget to shave or wax.
Remember that no matter how clean it is, it’s worth using added protection so a dental dam or something that can be used as an alternative is a wise choice to keep everyone safe and healthy. Never move fingers or tongues from the butt to another part of the genitalia before washing as you may be dragging along some unwanted bacteria that can cause unpleasant after effects. Even if the behind you’re eating is sparkly clean, it’s not worth taking any chances.
The anus is a hypersensitive erogenous area. The nerve endings are close to the surface and for both men and women, when stimulated, they provide incredibly powerful sexual sensations. So, it’s important to treat it like the delicate area it is. Start with gentle stuff like blowing and kissing and gradually build up to licking and sucking. To give really good analingus, you need to push those cheeks apart wide and keep them that way. Your partner might want to find a position that gives you better access, but one of you will need to help to keep them spread for the best access.
You can use rimming as a type of foreplay. Its especially helpful to relax your behind if one is planning to penetrate it. When eating a man’s butt, never forget that there is a wonderful, special little g spot in there called the prostate. You can stimulate it by licking the area between their balls and their butt hole. Massage it from the outside. And if you really want to push him over the edge, using a ton spit or lube, slide your finger inside while you’re licking him and gently stroke it internally. Just prepare yourself because he may ejaculate from that stimulation alone.
When licking out a woman you may well want to move on to that pretty pink puckered hole either as a prelude to anal sex or just to turn her on even more. It will amaze you at how horny rimming can make a woman. And when you tease her vagina with your fingers at the same time, she won’t know which hole she wants you inside more urgently. Then it’s all up to you. Never let an erogenous zone go to waste. Get over your hang ups and give rimming a try. It’s a fun way to experiment with a partner you trust and the chances are that once you do, you’ll be hooked.