What does dating a Latina woman entail? In this era of online dating and swirl dating, meeting Hispanic women has become easier. The entire universe is connected by the internet. And Latino singles are equally connected to the world too. Online dating has gained such popularity the world over. Apparently, most of the things they say about Latina women on the internet are true. So what makes these women be hailed so much on the internet?

Read on for more of this scoop…

What is it like to date a Latino woman

What does dating Latino women really entail? Is there a way they prefer men to treat them? What do Latino women want?

Well, one may say that all that matters when dating a woman from any race is compatibility and the sharing of similar beliefs. But for this connection to happen there might be some guidelines one might need to follow in order to get the point of gauging chemistry right? RIGHT!

That said though there are some things that these women have in common that any man who is wondering what is it like to date a Latino woman needs to know. That way, the man will be in a better position to take care of her the way she deserves and the way she needs to be treated.

The thing is, we cannot deny the fact that people come from different cultures and that there is a certain way that some cultures do behave. So when it comes to interracial dating, in order to make it work, then as a couple you will need to accept, acknowledge, respect these differences and find a compromise.

Well here are some of the things you need to know about dating a Latina woman…

They are a sight to behold

From their luscious dark hair to their tanned looking skin; the passion they exude – and don’t get me started on their exotic accent – Latina women are simply desirable. Don’t you just love watching the likes of Salma Hayek and Sofia Vergara and Beyonce on TV? Whether we like to admit it or not, these women are really good looking. Apparently, they also try as much as possible to look as fly as they look. So if you have a date with her, she will take her time to attain that look that you will die for.

So there is this stereotype that they are always late. So if you want to date a Latina woman well, then you need to be patient. Well, if she comes looking as fly as hell, then she is worth all that wait. Plus, they really rock the deep red lipstick, and those short skater dresses just perfectly.

They are very romantic

Well apparently when it comes to romantic relationships, Latin women are passionate and expect lots of romance in their lives. Dating these women is an exhilarating experience you will want to write home about. Stereotype or not, this is no lie. Those people who have dated Latina women will tell you that  Latin women are passionate. And that is a common trait among them.

They are just passionate about everything in their lives. So whatever her career or hobbies are, she will love you passionately with a love that burns fiercely. So once you are in her mix, you are in. Expect to be loved hard.

Great values and know their way around a man

Apparently, most Latina women have great values, especially those who have been raised in South America, are raised in the traditional way. Most of them are raised to treat a man right – from cooking for them, tending to their every need and they tend to be very loyal to their men too. Apparently, they are also groomed to appear shy when it comes to romantic matters.

Just because Latina women have great values, are Latina women great in bed?

She will want to show you off

From friends to family… This woman will for sure show you off. She wants her best friends, cousins, and family to know that you exit. So chances are that she will be flaunting pictures of you all over. A Latina woman will tell the people she loves just how great the man in her life is.

Apparently, they are hyper-sexualized

If the question on your mind is: Are Latina women great in bed? Apparently, the answer is Yes. So if you are the jealous type, you might really have trouble dating her. So you need to be a trusting man to be comfortable with her confidence in her sexuality.

For one, she is hot! So she is definitely going to bit hit on more than you can imagine. Also, expect her to be fetishized for her exotic beauty.

One thing is if you want her to give you her all in bed, then you need to appreciate her… not sexualize her. Plus, if what we see on TV is worth going by, then these women, their hot bodies and great dancing moves that are concentrated in the hip area definitely says something about their performance in bed. 

They love food

If you are dating a Latina woman one thing you need to be assured of is that you will never go hungry. Eating for them is a whole experience. So you need to be that kind of guy that loves and appreciates food. They love cooking so you better bring that appetite with you.

She will be there with you through thick and thin.

When dating a Latina woman they will love you as hard, and hurt with you as hard too. This woman will be concerned about your downs too and will always be there for you. So expect the unconditional kind of love with her. Once you are in, she will love you all the way. Much as people always ask why are Latinas so tough, these women have the softest hearts when it comes to the men they really love.

She is a talker but also a good listener

Much as they say that Latina women are quite chatty, one thing most people never point out is how good they are at listening too. They know when to talk and when to listen too. So for them love is 2 way. They want to feel needed so they also want the man to feel needed too. Now, you might that this is a backward tradition. But in reality, it really isn’t.

They do speak up when they feel the need to. So, don’t mistake her giving you an ear for weakness. They just know how to communicate the old-fashioned way, the way their culture has taught them. If you go with that bad tone, she will have some harsh things to say about that.

The thing is, Latina women love to have relationships where both the man and woman empower one another. It’s a partnership. Relationship goals matter.

Here are some of the things you need to watch out for…

Watch your tone!

Why are Latinas so tough? Well, it isn’t that Latina women call the shots. It’s just that from an early age they have been brought up with values. So, the kind of tones that their parents never appreciated, the women also don’t appreciate such tones in their relationships.

So steer clear from calling her feisty. Plus, steer clear from speaking Spanish to her when you are having sex because this will not be appreciated. It comes off as you fetishizing her for being Latina.

How to approach her online

People have this habit of trying to look exotic when approaching Latino women. Please steer clear from using words like ‘caliente’, ‘mamacita’ or those other Hispanic words you are thinking about as the first line. If possible, NEVER! I cannot stress enough how these names are stereotypical. So if she calls you off, you start saying that Latina women call the shots. They just don’t appreciate being sexualized and fetishized.

Another thing, if you don’t speak Spanish, cute as it may seem, don’t try to write phrases you have no idea what they mean. Phrases used in the wrong context can have a totally different meaning so be careful about this.

What I am saying is just be yourself. Let her know the real you from the get-go. Work on a nice catchy email that is different from the normal “Hey there” that every person you know starts with.

Her family will probably be there… a lot!

When dating a Latina woman, this one thing that you need to be prepared for. They love family. They love the sense of belonging so chances are her family with be in your life a lot! And by a lot, it is really a lot. First off, the moment that she realizes that you are an item, she will not hesitate to introduce you to her family. So don’t be shocked if she does introductions to friends, immediate family, and all other relatives, even grandparents a little too soon. All she is seeking is just clearance that she is good to move on with the relationship if she chooses to.

Now after the blessings expect family and gatherings every other time because Latinas love their culture. That togetherness is their way of life. Expect that one day, that family will be yours and they will be popping in for cookouts whenever they feel like it. If you are serious about being with a Latina woman, then be prepared to be part of that big family.

Don’t try to rush things

On your date, do not rush things or appear that you are just in a rush to have sex with her. So just slow things down a bit but state your intentions clearly. Also, make sure you watch your tone. Harsh tones are not acceptable. I don’t think I really need to expound on that.

As I come to the end of this article, one thing you must remember is that a Latina woman will always love being a Latina woman. So don’t go imposing your culture on her. Instead, embrace it. Talk about your shared interests. Accommodate the salsa dancing and all. I believe that the things I have shared with you today will help someone who is attracted to a Latina, a man who has never dated one. Hope you now have a rough understanding of them before they begin dating them.

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Is it possible to identify the signs of a stale relationship when you are still madly in love? The thing with love is that the feeling can be so fantastic that it can sometimes blind you to the very reality of what is really happening in your relationship. A good relationship has to be 2-way. Unfortunately, there are times that it is not. One person can be feeling the love and the other feeling a totally different way.

Can you pinpoint signs that your relationship is going the other way? Read on as we discuss some of these signs…

How to identify stale relationship signs

Being in love doesn’t really mean that things will always be smooth. Even those in super happy relationships usually go through their ups and downs. So even those people we see and admire because we feel they are in a perfect relationship don’t have perfect relationships at all times.

The thing is, there are some dynamics that come into play that can bring some tension to an otherwise smooth relationship. Has the chemistry died down? Is your partner no longer enthusiastic about things you used to love doing together or you? Well, these are some of the signs of a stale relationship.

These things happen. Let’s have a look at some of these signs and how a relationship that has gone stale can be salvaged.

You are no longer as physically intimate as you used to be

When one spouse mentions that intimacy is dwindling or has died, one thing you will hear the other one saying is that “sex is not important in a relationship”. Well as much as ideally, we are told that physical intimacy isn’t important, realistically, it’s just as important as emotional intimacy.

When the sex dies or dwindles down, this is one pretty major sign that you are growing distant from partner, especially if you are the one who isn’t feeling the urge and is always making excuses not to have sex anymore.

Now I am not even talking just sex. There is usually just that simple romantic involvement like holding hands and cuddling. Such physical intimacy is a huge part of a relationship. Even when it’s not possible for one of you to have sex because of medical reasons, that cuddling and holding hands should be enough to show that the two of you are still in sync.

So if there is a dramatic change that has happened in your physical intimacy that has no rational explanation whatsoever, or things have shifted in a way that doesn’t feel normal then that’s a sign for sure.

Solution on how to overcome stale sex

The answer to how to overcome stale sex is to come up with new things to try in the bedroom. Come up with creative ways to spice up your marriage or relationship such as trying some sex talk, bedroom games, and be open to try out new things like bondage, anal play, and sex talk. All this will work if both of you are on board. If there is an underlying issue that is interfering with your sex life, then try fixing that first.

Lack of appreciation

Some things might seem minute generally. But in the relationship world, they mean a lot. When couples start out they are usually grateful for everything. Even when someone gives you that present that you don’t like, you pretend how much you love it. But you know what you say thank you, not because you are faking the gratitude but because it’s the thought that counts.

One of the other clear relationship getting stale signs is if the gratitude dying down or stops completely. See, when for instance, this person who used to pretend to like something suddenly starts complaining about a bad gift in your face. That ‘thanks’ that used to be sad because you at least thought of getting a gift is gone.

When you start taking each other for granted, when one or both of you don’t express or feel gratitude, then that is a sign of growing distant from partner.

Solution to lack of appreciation

Start being grateful for the little things. Sometimes, we just get consumed by our day-to-day stuff that we forget the simple little things that can make the other happy. Say thank you even when someone brings you a cup of milk and it will rub off on the other person eventually.

You are no longer good to each other

Whoever said that there is a fine line between love and hate, between being indifferent and being hurtful was so true. Now indifference isn’t so bad. Going back to caring from a point of indifference is easy. But when you cross over to being consciously hurtful to one another, doing and saying hurtful things as opposed to trying to be kind to one another, then that’s one of the relationship getting stale signs.

Solution to no longer being good to each other

If your partner is the one who is solely hurtful to you no matter how nice you are to him or her, then you don’t have to deal with a mean person. You have the choice to walk away. If on the other hand both of you are doing it, then the choice is yours. If you acknowledge that you are bad to one another and both want to shift gears and go back to being nice or do you feel that it’s best to walk away before things get worse, then so be it.

There is a profound lack of joy and excitement

Sometimes it’s hard to identify the stale relationship signs because you are deep into the relationship until that nosy or close friend mentions that you and your spouse don’t seem as happy or as close as you used to be anymore. You then realize they are actually right.

If you no longer look forward to being with your spouse anymore, then you need to stop and reflect on that.  Seeing the person you love even after a few hours of being apart should elicit some feelings of excitement and happiness. If you feel apathy towards them, then that is one of the main signs of a stale relationship.

Solution to lack of joy and excitement

Mostly, this happens because the connection that you had when you first got together is broken. Sometimes, it’s because you have not been dealing with issues that they become overwhelming. If you are both committed to the relationship then it’s worth exploring what is going on. If there are things you need to talk about, talk, and deal with them.

Sometimes, getting that joy and excitement back is as simple as going back to the basics. Go back to doing the silly things that used to make you happy when you first met. Lastly, don’t be afraid to seek therapy.

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Now that we are heading into a new year, it’s important that we compile a list of 2021 wedding trends as we look forward to the year ahead. With the COVID-19 pandemic, there are a lot of people who were forced to postpone or even cancel their wedding plans. Then there are those who had to downsize their weddings because of the restrictions that were in place. Much as things are still a bit gloomy, we still need to look at the bright side and give ourselves hope that we will have a better 2021 and weddings are going to happen.

So as we forecast for the year ahead, color palettes, wedding decor, floral inspiration, and new wedding reception trends should we expect and look forward to? Scroll on to find out…

Modern wedding decor and trends

Every year, wedding trends evolve. For that reason, wedding magazines and websites online have to tell us what the latest wedding trend is. We have been used to the excitement of weddings for years on end. Some are totally hyper-personalized. Now we cannot run away from the fact that the coronavirus has really screwed so many people’s weddings. The effects of the virus are definitely going to affect the 2021 wedding trends. So we cannot overlook the fact that now we need new wedding reception trends, newer experiences, in order for couples to be able to capture the memories of their special day.

The thing is, weddings are not coming to an end. What is happening is that people have to embrace our new reality. Trends usually develop from necessity. Now we have to consider doing weddings in a totally new way. So people now have to merge necessity with what is new. Well here are some trends we expect to see in 2021 that can serve as wedding tips as you plan your dream wedding.

The guest entry points

The new norm is hand sanitizing, washing hands, and social distancing. Well, at the guest entry points, we will definitely expect to find hand sanitizing points as well as some simple rules on how to stay safe and social distancing signs. We will expect to find ushers insisting on people to wear their masks at all times.

Right now the new wedding trend is the downsizing of weddings to much smaller, intimate, and manageable numbers. Since the numbers are smaller, people will start adopting a more guest-centered approach where the guests might even get a send-off package to carry home.

So at the wedding entry, we will expect well-designed welcome boxes or gifts. There are those couples who will are already designing masks for their guests to match with their wedding decor 2021. So these are some of the things we will find in those welcome boxes. So basically, these welcome packages are packed with things to ensure the guests attending the event will be safely housed. Masks, hand sanitizers are some of the things that will accompany the programs at the guests’ entry points.

Tents, twinkly lights, and outdoor events.

For 2021 wedding trends as instructed and recommended by the CDC and other health officials, we will be seeing more outdoor weddings. Already, they are happening. Not just in the US but all around the world. This new wedding trend has brought about a surge in the interests in wedding tents because of weddings being done outdoors. And with the tents also necessitates tinkly lighting in order to add some romantic ambiance to these special occasions.

For wedding decor 2021, people are leaning towards more fresh air as well as nature. Outdoor weddings have started and will keep stealing the show in 2021 as people move away from ballroom weddings. Wedding outdoors can be one of the perfect spring wedding trends. The thing is, outdoor events are safer because for one, maintaining social distancing will be easier. Also, that unlimited supply of air totally needed during these corona times.

So if you are planning a wedding in 2021, talk to your planner and ask them to recommend whimsical and elegant tented options. If the event will be going well into the night as most weddings do, make sure you have lighting technicians on standby to create both the ambiance as well as assist if there is any technical hitch. So on your wedding planning checklist, make sure to include some great drapery and lighting to decorate your tent. If your planner is good he or she will be able to turn that outdoor event into a bright, airy, elegant, fairytale affair.

Mini hors d’oeuvres

Smaller plates are now becoming more fashionable. For instance, we are seeing them served on grazing boards for each individual. The thing is we need to keep things safe and sweet. Couples and their planners are coming up with ways to ensure that safety is observed as they celebrate their unions. We are now preferring individualized bite-size portions. The other thing that we will see is fancy disposable serving plates. While they give the guests the reassurance of safety, they are convenient for the planners and the presentation does wow the guests too.

Mismatched seats

This is one of the wedding colors 2021 trends that has got no connection to the coronavirus pandemic. Asymmetry is becoming very fashionable. I am sure you have been to or have seen one wedding in a magazine where bridesmaids are wearing mismatched dresses. Suddenly when we talk about modern wedding decor, planners and wedding organizers seem to have pushed this craze to mismatched seating under those outdoor tents of theirs. Now, wedding tables and seats are no longer matchy-matchy. Mismatched seems to be the in-thing.

The other thing is there is some asymmetry to the whole wedding affair. Before, when you looked at the seating area, for instance, all chairs and tables were standardized. For instance, if they settled on square tables, all tables in the seating area would be square. Today, we are seeing more mismatched themes. The tables are mixed. So you would find some that can accommodate two people, other tables 6 people. Maybe they are a reflection of the times where for instance, a family coming to the wedding from the same household are can be lumped together. One thing for sure about these 2021 wedding trends is that they photograph spectacularly.

The toasts are diminishing too

As the wedding attendances shrink to more intimate sizes, one of the spring wedding trends that we will see is that the guests are also being very intimate. This means we expect to see guests at a wedding who have very close relations with the couples. Now even if a lot of people would get up and give their toasts, next year we are going to see tiny toasts where only close family members will be sharing memories of and about the couple.

Imagine how intimate and casuals the wedding speeches will be knowing that the people you are addressing share lots of common memories with you. The wedding parties will stop being so formal, with formal speeches and they will have a casual, dinner party feel. So no more need for guests to prepare and rehearse those speeches. Just keep them small, simple, and casual.

Cafe style entertainment

Seeing as weddings are now moving to more semi-formal and relaxed settings and environments, the entertainment also has to match this feel. Right now the entertainment and performances at weddings are going bistro or cafe-style.  Most wedding planners and magazines are expecting a surge in acoustic performances and more relaxed performances. You can also hire a DJ to play bistro songs.

Colors with a fresh flair

Wedding colors 2021 are leaning towards fresh color palettes and prints. The 90’s trend seems to be gaining popularity. We will see couples in 2021 incorporating fresh and nature-like hues in their wedding decor. We also expect bold, colorful, and unexpected colors as people dismiss the usual and expected whites and creams. The wedding decor is moving away from dull to fun, happy, and bright!

The outdoor lounge

With the 2021 wedding trends, we will be seeing couples taking the living room outdoors. What we will be seeing is couches, microfiber,  plush pillows, and throws being perfectly used outdoors. No much modification to the living room settings. They will look like they have been plucked straight from the living rooms and placed in an airy field. It’s all about making the outdoors be as comfortable as the indoors can be.

So ask your planners and coordinators to pick out comfortable chairs and lounge-seating furnishing offering comfort and warmth outdoors. If you opt for the lounge setting for your guests, then make sure that besides them being beautiful, they should also be plush enough to offer comfort because chances are your guests will be seated for longer.

Even with the outdoor lounge, incorporate some greenery and make it cozy by adding other natural elements. Just let your living room decor blend seamlessly outdoors and you and your guests will for sure have a wedding worth writing home about.

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Is there a particular reason why glasses are sexy on most people who wear them? We must admit that these days, the men and women who spot glasses make them appear hot. It is like glasses usually give someone an upgrade from what they actually look like. If you think that glasses are a no-no, you need to think again. If you think the geeky, intelligent look is a no for you, it has become the look of choice that has been trending.

Read on as we examine this strange, yet hot look…

What makes glasses make people look hot?

One of the things that come to the top of my head is that Harry Potter made glasses cool. Have glasses become one of the most common fetishes? Whatever the idea behind it doesn’t really matter. All that matters is that these days we see celebrities and the hottest people with glasses.

Now we all have a type. So, if your type is the ‘Harry Potter’ type, who are we to judge. One thing most people who end up falling for men and women who wear glasses will tell you that it is not that they go actively looking for someone who wears glasses.

That said though, whether it is the sunglasses or reading glasses, most people are spotting the look because they think glasses are sexy. You might find even those with no underlying eye issues wearing them just so that they can also be in the glasses wave.

So, what really makes people look handsome in glasses and magnetically beautiful in glasses? Let’s take a look.

The Superman look

Here I am sure most ladies and guys alike will agree with me on this one. The dude wears those glasses perfectly. Ken Clark really pulled off the glasses look. Plus, what made it even better is how the dude used to bravely run into danger and rescuing people. Then there was the added hotness that is enhanced whenever he rips off his clothes. Need I continue to explain why people look handsome in glasses after that ripping off of clothes ?

To add on to this superhero look, we cannot forget Peter Parker/Spiderman. Do they save the world better in glasses? May be glasses are the best villain detectors. As the steps on his skateboard, one thing we can agree on is that Spiderman is one of the hottest people with glasses.

Glasses make people look intelligent. Intelligent is sexy

Most women are drawn to men who look like they are smooth, sexy geniuses. Like it or not, glasses, especially the shapes that are trending these days make everybody look more intelligent. The thing smart is sexy. Ask any woman, they will attest to this.

Glasses and books just go together

Apparently, people who love books are the best lovers. Well, it makes a lot of sense as they would probably research about various moves to lure a man or woman. The thing is, bookworms try to find ways to please a man or woman. Then have you ever been given that ‘I know you have been watching me’ look by someone who was gazing at a book then suddenly looked up? Well, that does have an arousing effect, that’s for sure.

Guys with glasses seem more reliable

One of the other reasons that glasses make people look hot is that they sort of give a vibe of someone being reliable. When you see a person with glasses the first thing that the nerdy look gives off is that this person will never let you down.

They are the indoor sunglasses

I f you are the kind of person who believes that glasses are sexy then whenever you can opt for just clear glasses whenever you are indoors. As I mentioned earlier, sunglasses have a way of making a person look like an upgraded, hotter version of themselves. So if you love how you look when you are wearing your sunglasses outside, then consider clear glasses as a substitute for when you are indoors so that you don’t look like a douche wearing sunglasses indoors. Glasses are your best solution.

Harry Potter made glasses cool

When thinking about this, I remember this episode of ‘Two and a Half Men’ where Jake had put up posters of sexy women on the wall of his bedroom. Now when the grown-ups left he put some glasses on and addressed the posters saying, “Hello ladies. I am Harry Potter” in that British accent. I am sure that British accent that people really love actually made the Harry Potter look pretty sexy. Look at Halloween and how lots of people like spotting the Harry Potter look. Now if there is a guy that made the nerdish look be sexy, it is Harry Potter.

People with glasses fully embrace that look

One thing that makes glasses make you look hot is that people believe that you have embraced the look. The thing with people who wear glasses is that they never hide under contact lenses. They really don’t care about what people think of their looks. These people usually embrace the nerdy look. And that bold statement of “I love the way I look and don’t need to pretend to be someone I am not” is what makes people believe that glasses are sexy.

Glasses make people stand out from the crowd

What makes glasses make you look hot is that you get noticed faster and more than men or women who don’t have glasses on. The thing is, even the men who would normally ignore you will notice you when you have them on. One might not like how you dress, but the glasses will make them notice your eyes. Glasses are a magnetic accessory, one most people can’t ignore.

When those glasses come off, you know its time for some sexy business

There goes your green light. Someone wants to get their sex on. It’s like the moment those glasses come off, you know it the green light that things are about to go down. It’s sexy time! It’s kind of like saying that taking the glasses off makes them see even more clearly when they are getting down to business.

Have I done enough convincing about why you need to consider this nerdish look? Well, if you think I am lying, how about searching for hot celebrities that wear glasses. That my friend will change your mind because many of them really look hot. Plus, glasses have become trendy.

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There are people who will swear that redheads are the best. Some even refer to them as real-life unicorns. Are they really? It’s no wonder quite a number of women usually dye their hair into a rich red. And you know what, they love every minute of the attention that they get. So why all that attention? Can people come up with actual reasons to back the statement that redheads are the real deal?

Well, here are some of the reasons why you need to consider going ‘ginger’. Read on…

Why choose a redhead?

Some time back, redheads were not considered to be on the competing plane when it comes to the “who is better” question. It always used to be a contest between the blondes and the brunettes. Well, it seems like that argument has officially been settled. And guess who won the day, apparently scientifically? That redhead that has been ignored for quite a while turned out to have the upper hand in this debate.

You don’t believe it? Well, let’s take a look at some of the facts that support the facts that will begin to show you why redheads are better than blondes and brunettes… and why you should probably consider turning into a ‘fake’ one lol…

They have genetic superpowers

The genetics surrounding the redheads are some of the main reasons why people regard them as the “unicorns of the human world”. One of the facts that has made them garner that title is because they are rare – 2 percent of the population. Besides that, they are different in so many ways scientifically. Besides being rare, let’s talk about some of these generic superpowers they possess and other amazing facts that keep emerging about redheads.

They produce their own Vitamin D

If you are a redhead, then you have heard the joke that redheads could burn even under a shade. Nothing negative about the joke. Apparently, the concentration of red hair and pale skin made redheads, especially from the European countries adapt to the cloudy weather conditions and gained a greater ability to create their own vitamin D. Redheads are the best because they do not need to go outside to get that vitamin D. They create it.

So the reason why redheads are better than blondes is that they have the ability to fight things like Ricketts better. When they go outside, they absorb it even faster. And because low vitamin D leads to illnesses like diabetes, asthma, or arthritis, redheads are less likely to develop them. What an evolutionary advantage!

They are a tough breed

After mentioning that they have genetic superpowers, this shouldn’t come as a surprise. Apparently, their tolerance to pain levels is higher by up to 25 percent than that of other hair colors. The way they react to and handle pain is totally different. They even feel less pain when pricked. Spicy food, bring it on. According to some studies, it required 20% more general anesthesia to put the ginger under during surgery. If they are harder to sedate, I wonder how many gallons of alcohol they can down

This could be the reason why redheads are adventurous, in bed that is. They are more likely to be into BDSM.

They age gracefully

Look at Scarlett Johansson. How about Prince Harry. What makes them so ageless… They still look like they did when they were in their 20’s right? One thing they have in common is their red hair. Redheads have a gene called the gene MC1R gene, which is responsible for their ginger hair. That said, the same gene has a variant that keeps some of these redheads looking much younger than others. According to studies, redheads usually look like they have shed 2 years off their skins.

Besides the skin appearing two years younger, the level of pigmentation in their hair also works to their favor. Red hair tends to retain its color for longer than all other shades of hair. So their hair doesn’t drastically go grey. It will often fade to a blonde before graying.

Apparently, most people think they are funnier

So I am just going to put it as a question for you to think about. When you think of circus clowns, which color usually comes to mind? Yap a brightly red-colored wig and a pale face. All this depiction of clowns as redheads began in the 19th century. Well, the idea behind the brightness of the wig was not about them looking funny. It was so that people at the back could see them. So red became the color of choice.

That idea of the red-haired clown became embedded into people so much so that even today, people associate the red hair of redheads with clowns. So when one meets a redhead, they automatically assume that they are funny as hell. That could be another reason why people are so smitten by them.

They are more sensitive to changes in temperatures

Redheads feel the changes in temperature more rapidly than other people with different hair colors. This is because of the redhead gene, MC1R. It usually makes the temperature-detecting gene in humans to become overreactive. This is what makes redheads more sensitive to sudden changes in temperature. So if a redhead says they are chilly when you are leaving the house, better go grab that snowsuit because it means it’s going to be bloody cold. Their sense of temperature is very accurate.

So why choose a redhead? Well, you are just about to find out why next…

They have more, better sex

Well, one of the things about redheads that emerged recently is that redheads are the best at sex. Besides being great at it, they are also having more of it. Now, this isn’t just some hearsay stuff. There is some scientific stuff to back this. Actually, the ‘having more sex’ bit is scientific. Plus they are better at it, thanks to their genetic makeup and physical characteristics.

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Wondering how to get space from your partner during the lockdown? I am sure it didn’t take you too long to realize that he chews too loud. Or that she uses so much toilet paper? You might be shocked that nothing has changed. It’s just that now you have to self-isolate together, you are in each other’s space too much that even when the other person drops a pin, it seems like a deafening sound.

Has the presence of our loved ones become too overwhelming while isolating together? You are seriously going to love these tips on how you can carve some space personal space for yourself. Read on…

Best ways to get a break from your partner

You are not alone. You are just among the couples that have to isolate together. Maybe your spouse is even making a great effort to tone down some of those habits that have been getting on your nerves lately. Having been forced to spend time with the same human being in the same surroundings has really been trying and frustrating for most couples. They have to figure out how to do all things within the same space and still stay sane. This is not only driving them insane. It’s also driving most to breakups.

We are sharing this article with you because we are pro-love and we don’t want you to get to the point of breaking up. We just want to show you how getting space from your partner can be very beneficial to your relationship, especially if you are a couple who isn’t used to being crumpled up together.

“I need some space”. “I need some more air”. It looks like some couples are beginning to think that they have mild claustrophobia. Lol.

Well here is how to get space from your partner

Create personal spaces by designating areas in your house

Sometimes, asking for space from boyfriend is as simple as designating certain spaces as your own especially if you start feeling some suffocation. Even if you are living in a one-bedroomed apartment, you can still create space. For instance, one person can work from the bedroom and the other one, the living room. Even if this happens for a few hours during the day it will help each one of you get some space.

Whoever said ‘absence makes the heart grow fonder’ was right. This time of corona, it has been proven so as men have been searching on how to get space from girlfriend, and women doing the same in the case of their men. So that small space will make you miss the other person, creating an opportunity for some romantic reconnection once work is done.

So, go ahead and designate spaces for work, for chilling out together to interact, and for privacy.

Have separate workspaces

This is just a continuation of the point above – only from a different point of view. There are very few people who cannot coexist with their partners as their co-workers.  Invasion of someone’s space, especially if work is what gives you the well-deserved break from your spouse can really produce stress. Asking for space from boyfriend or girlfriend at this point is better than letting the stress take a toll on your relationship. Each of you should set up separate workspaces so that you define and learn to respect each other’s private workspace.

Using texts to communicate like you would at work

 It might seem like overdependence on gadgets but trust me, this is one of the best ways to get a break from your partner. Plus, it shows how much you really respect each other’s private workspace. When one is looking for personal space, the sensory overload that comes with talking in person can be overwhelming… increasing the possibility of a confrontation ensuing. This why we believe texting is a great way of getting space from your partner. With texts, you can enjoy your persona; space, and still pass across important messages that need to be shared.

Exercise alone

If there is one thing that people have benefitted from is home workouts while in isolation. Through exercise people show self-care, getting one to the zone where the body and mind connect. So if you are still wondering how to get space from your partner, create your own exercise time and wind out. So get that well-deserved workout… just do it alone. This solo workout sessions will give you about an hour of quiet, self-reflection.

Ask for space in a good way

The best way to go about how to get space from girlfriend or boyfriend is not to tell someone “I need space’. Instead, be specific about what you want to do. For instance, “Can I have an hour to read some book?” If there are things you enjoy doing alone, ask to do them alone, and don’t feel guilty about it. Trust me, those alone times are the ones that will keep you sane as you get cramped up together.

Designate time to have fun together.

Even as you are looking for ways on how to get space from your partner, always remember to carve some time for a date night or some fun together. Laughter is the best medicine. During this time, do things that you love doing together in order to learn to appreciate your partner.

Just like your finding space and some private space for yourself is important, as you self-isolate together, it’s important to allocate time to also bond as a couple too. Make sure you schedule those date nights. Order in, put on those great outfits, and have some fun with your significant other like you would if you had gone out.

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Political ideology can be a strong indicator of whether a couple will get together and stay together especially when it’s republican democrat dating. It’s a very strong factor for mate selection than personality. Today — whether Trump is the cause or symptom — Republicans and Democrats don’t just disagree, let alone agree to disagree. They personally despise, disrespect, slander, and vilify each other. So, democrats and Republicans really do not like each other.

Researchers have found that they avoid dating one another, desire not to live near one another, and disapprove of the idea that their offspring would marry someone outside their party. Read on as we tackle this and more…

Can you co-exist with different political views?

The reason daters are being so open about their disinterest in people across the political aisle is not about party lines, but rather, about the values associated with their parties. Many single people looking for a republican democrat dating wouldn’t want to date someone who voted for the candidate of the opposing party. The challenges for bipartisan couples are harder than ever. So, what is it like to date a republican?

“Love conquers all,” some ancient Roman or Greek poet said. Can you co-exist with different political views? how to can a republican and democrat find love? Here are a few tips on

Avoid talking politics

Talking about politics with people they disagree with is generally stressful and frustrating. Do not bring needless stress into the relationship. Your fight over politics isn’t going to change America anyway. Talk instead of less stressful topics such as money, sex, child-rearing, and each other’s mothers. Couples who don’t have terribly strong feelings one way or another are willing to go along with their spouse’s views in order to get along. In scenarios where the partners aren’t too deeply entrenched in their views, there is some hope for finding common ground on which to build a relationship. Ask your partner about their political beliefs early on. This will help understand the person you’re romantically involved with and will help you decide whether to stay together or part ways.

Hearing another person’s point of view can enlighten you on a topic that maybe you didn’t have all of the facts on. Having a lively debate is healthy in a relationship, and so is having your own opinions on important issues. However, if the gap is just so wide, it’s unlikely the relationship will succeed.

Ask your partner questions, however, be patient and kind.

Find out the reason behind your partner’s party affiliation. Perhaps it comes down to one or two issues really important to them. And perhaps you can find common ground on those issues. Usually, it’s normal for couples to feel strongly, but differently, about one or two issues, and need to talk through the motivation behind those beliefs.

Political differences could be a good relationship-builder

Mixing politics and love to tackle touchy subjects together with humility and open minds might enhance a stronger connection. What is it like to date a republican? Republican Democrat dating can be a deal-breaker because of a couple’s vast differences especially on issues like Climate change, Gun control or gun rights, LGBT rights, Religious freedom, abortion, etc. If you can look for and understand your partner’s point of view, most likely you will be able to tackle other life challenges that may come up in the future.

Can a republican and democrat date? It’s a good sign if a democrat dating republican respects one other’s beliefs and agrees to disagree.

Try not to avoid it

Avoiding political discussion for fear it will end up as an argument can be a wrong move. Avoidance may prevent you from really understanding your partner and may actually even drive more of a wedge in the relationship.

On the other hand, if a democrat dating republican is not that into politics, there is no need to force the conversation. The main goal is to be open about your positions and why they’re important to you. However, you should not give up on your values just to appease your partner.

Republican Democrat dating, despite your political differences, you can find love. But, before you do, there are certain expectations that should not come by surprise as you get to know what it’s like to date a Democrat versus what it’s like to date a Republican; Expect a republican to take you to a firing range at some point, a Republican will definitely be more concerned about your stance on religion, Democrats are likely to skip a date altogether and get to the good stuff

Conclusion?

Can a republican and democrat date? Even if you and your Republican or Democrat partner have different values…. while you believe you’re open-minded and progressive, while your partner is narrow-minded and regressive, it doesn’t mean you can’t have fun together.

Mixing politics and love can work. Nurture your love and enjoy that. For more relationship articles, visit Love is All Colors.

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One of the most common relationship challenges is knowing when to walk away after infidelity. It has been cited by many as one of the things that couples really have a problem dealing with and moving past. The consequences of cheating can be very devastating – from the anger to humiliation and even depression. This could be the reason why infidelity had been cited as a major cause of breakups and divorce.

Are there ways on how to fix a relationship after infidelity? How can you be sure of know when to walk away? Take a look as we examine this widely discussed and heavily sensitive issue in relationships below.

When to walk away from a relationship after infidelity

There is a high increase in divorce rates – 50% of marriages in the U.S. end in divorce. That is pretty alarming. This usually happens when a couple has reached a stalemate when it comes to dealing with relationship issues. And one of the problems that really plays a big real in couples having challenges resolving their issues is infidelity. For instance, how are you supposed to forgive after walking in on cheating spouse?

Breakups and divorce can be very painful to deal with. They have emotional, social, psychological, as well as financial implications for the couple. Avoiding to deal with all this pain is the main reason that some couples would rather seek answers on how to fix a relationship after infidelity.

The big question to ask yourself if you are wondering when to walk away after infidelity is how much the trust in your relationship phase been violated. One thing that we have seen when it comes to infidelity is that women are more likely to forgive sexual infidelity. For most men, it’s a big deal-breaker. So, if it happened to you, would you know when to walk away?

Here are some of the times you actually should consider that decision.

When your spouse is a serial cheater:

There are some people who are just serial cheaters. Usually, most people who are serial cheaters do it, not because they can’t control their actions, but because their actions stem from narcissism than their circumstances.

If you keep forgiving the person for the same thing over and over again, then it means they don’t respect you or love you enough to stop. This is one of the reasons that you need to walk away because if they did it again, it’s because they want to do it to you. Unless you are in an open relationship or don’t really care whether your spouse cheats, for your own emotional safety, you need to break free.

When you can’t trust again

Trust is the number one thing that people struggle with especially after walking in on cheating spouse. So even when a person is sincerely apologetic, it’s hard to make the decision of whether to trust them again. No matter the reason for the affair, we have to admit that there is a violation of trust. The pain and unhappiness will always remain.

Now if you feel that leaving might become more detrimental than trying to fix the relationship, then maybe it’s time you sought some counseling from a professional. Now if the violation of the trust is so hurtful that it makes ending the relationship easy, then that is when to walk away from a relationship.

When he is a cheating narcissist

There are some people who cheat just because they are selfish and they only care about what they want. So, if you have a narcissist in your hands, then you need to know that cheating won’t be a big deal for them. If an opportunity presents itself, trust me, they will take it. And this is all because they crave attention.

You need to know when to walk away after infidelity especially if it’s a narcissist. Believe me, if you are doing it in the hopes that it will put you in a strategic position, you are wrong. A narcissist will never change. They will change their ways momentarily to lure you back and return to their ways.

When it’s a deal-breaker

Everyone has their point of no return. There are times when if a line is crossed, that is it. The love switch goes off immediately. If when it comes to cheating, that’s your deal-breaker, then you need to walk away because staying will only lead to resentment and seeking for revenge because there is no love left. You are better off on your own than in an unhealthy relationship.

The thing is, if you have too much respect for yourself that makes cheating very disrespectful then that’s when to walk away after infidelity. If you especially specified that it’s a dealbreaker and someone chose to do it anyway, it’s time to walk away. Find someone who treats you with the love and respect you deserve. Put yourself and your feelings first. Tell them “You knew it was a deal-breaker and you did it anyway.” Show this person that you respect yourself enough to walk away.

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What are the most popular fetishes that people have? One thing that comes to mind when people talk about fetishes is some complicated sexual stuff.  But you know what, it doesn’t necessarily have to be some complicated sexual contraptions. Something as simple as liking to be spanked or tied up when having sex qualifies as a fetish.

Today on Love is All Colors, we take a look at what fetishes are as well as have a look at popular sexual fetishes. Scroll on as we talk more about these…

How common are fetishes

Before we start discussing  the most popular fetishes, first need to discuss what a fetish is.  To make it simple, a fetish isn’t an activity or object that one desires too much. What makes a fetish a fetish is a role that activity or object plays in that person’s life. Basically, it is a behavior or something that needs to be present for someone to get aroused. Without it, they might not be sexually aroused at all. It is sexual arousal that is dependent on a normally non-sexual object.

The words fetish and kink are usually used interchangeably. Kink is usually a behavior or act that is outside the norm of traditional sexual acts. For instance, bondage where a person gets super aroused when tied up. Bondage can also be a fetish where their whole sexuality revolves around being restrained. Then of course there is the normal turn on where someone simply gets aroused by something.

So how common are fetishes?

While, having fetishes comes with lots of  social stigmas, as days go by, they are increasingly considered as mainstream. In fact, lots of people are making a living out of being kinky and out of other people’s fetishes.

Now, when talking about fetishes, most of the people think of BDSM (Bondage/Domination/SadoMasochism). This usually involves lots of power play and exchanges by exploring new sensations of pleasure mixed with pain, and experiencing the mental satisfaction of control and surrender…dominance and submission. Much as BDMS might involve some fetishes, not all fetishes fall under BDSM. However the two sometimes do overlap.

Well, now that you are a bit schooled, let us talk about some of the most popular fetishes and what they involve and are all about. According to studies, about half of us are involved or have the desire to engage in ‘out of the norm’ sexual activities. So if some of the popular fetishes we discuss here interest you, trust me, you are not alone. Having these fetishes doesn’t make you weird. Remember those that involve BDSM can be intense and even dangerous. Make sure that all people involved consent and also practice safe sex.

Let’s dive in…

Role-Playing

We all have great imaginations and wild fantasies. One thing we need to realize is that make believe is not only meant for kids. Even adults do it. And for adults its a lot of fun because our games involve acting out our sexual fantasies. Plus when most couples find themselves in a sex rut, role play is usually the easiest way to get out of it. That is what makes role playing one of the most popular sexual fetishes that exist. It is the easiest and healthiest way for people to make their sexual fantasies come to life.

Now if nurses arouse you, you don’t actually need to have a doctor to have sex with you. However, your partner can dress up as a nurse and you can play nurse-patient, and make it as kinky and as erotic as you want. The thing with role playing is that you get to have consensual sex with your ‘nurse’. Plus, your nurse can become the patient anytime you both wish… she can be promoted to doctor and demoted back to nurse whenever you please.

Role play ideas range from the classic schoolgirl-professor one to some that carry lots of stigma like the daddy dom and little girl/brat one. So long is there is consent, any play is possible.

Anal play

This is one of the common women fetishes. Plus, its not just for women only. Men are also fascinated by anal play. Plus it as common amongst heterosexual sexual partners as it is with the gay ones. You will be surprised at the number of people who get off on butt stuff. This ranges from one being fingered in the a** while having vaginal sex, to actual penetration of the butt hole with a penis or dildo. The prostate – the male g-spot – is what makes men particularly enjoy anal play.

These days anal play has become more socially acceptable, especially with college students exploring their kink whenever they can. And then of course there is the porn industry. There is no lubrication and also the butt hole harbors bacteria which can easily be transferred to the vagina. So if you plan to engage in anal play, cleanliness is key. Use a condom. And the other rule, lube, lube and some more lube…

Impact play

This is another one of the most common fetishes. It simple means spanking, flogging, paddling… pretty much any form of consensual striking during sex. Spanking is usually the most common type of impact play and safest way to begin navigating the world of BDSM. This can range from slight slap on the butt, to some light whacking with a paddle, to using a whip to strike someone during sex.

Safety and comfort are important with such popular fetishes. Boundaries on how hard the impact should be need to be established. Let your partner know the level of intensity that turns you on and choose a safe word if things get out of hand. Do your homework because some parts of the body aren’t safe to impact. The rule of thumb is to only strike the meaty part like the thighs and butt. Avoid areas where there are organs underneath.

Bondage

Bondage is when you and your partner decide to introduce some restraint or BDSM tie into your sex lives. It might sound scary. But if your partner has confessed to this one of the common women fetishes, then this is an exhilarating world to explore in the bedroom. Believe me, the mixture of both pain and pleasure on a human body at once is amazing as a couple gets into a realm of both mental and sexual satisfaction of both control and surrender.

The easiest way to go about it is to bind your partner using objects that you already have in plain sight such as  scarf or belt. You could also get some kinky handcuffs. Since the dominance and submission dynamics come into play with this fetish safety and boundaries are key. There must be consent. Plus like all other most common sexual fetishes that involve some form of dominance and submission, always have a safe word. Communicate about all aspects of bondage and take it slow lest you end up cutting off your partner’s blood circulation

Threesomes and orgies

This is all about getting it on with more than one person. If you have been on hookup online dating sites, you will back me when I say that this is another one of the most popular sexual fetishes among couples. They are always online looking for a third party. Then there are orgies where a group of people of all genders have sex. The other one is gangbang – one person being banged by more than two members. The most common fetishes of this kind is a woman being penetrated by multiple penises. One piece of advice: always use a condom!

Lingerie/ Costumes

One of the most popular fetishes revolves around something that could be sitting in your closet… lingerie. This is even shows up with people who would never in a million years consider themselves kinky or with fetishes. Now, while lots of people get aroused when they see their partners in lingerie or underwear, it becomes a fetish when lingerie MUST in any sexual scenario for one to get aroused… or maintain the arousal in order to get off. There are  also those fetishes that involve one wanting their partner to wear a particular costume…

Voyeurism and exhibitionism

This means that one reaches sexual satisfaction  from watching others who are naked or having sex. As per studies, this also happens to be most common sexual fetishes. This can be varied… from watching porn with your partner while having sex, to sex parties where you get permission to watch others having sex or masturbate.

Exhibitionism on the other hand means that a person gets off by allowing others to watch them. Remember, watching someone without their consent makes this stop being a fetish – it becomes perversion! Whatever the fetish consent is a must. Fetishes can lead to lots of misunderstandings. There is a fine line between having a fetish and being a pervert. And that line is crossed of consent is not obtained.

I hope the above answers your what are the most popular fetishes question and how you can engage in some of the ones you desire to engage in.

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The first thing that most people notice when dating the child of an alcoholic is that they usually have intimacy issues. They find it quite difficult to form intimate relationships. They have a lot of trust issues as well as self-esteem issues. So usually, they try the much they cannot get close to other people. So, some find themselves sabotaging these relationships the moment they realize that someone is trying to get a little closer to them.

So today on Love is All Colors, we are going to examine how alcoholism affects relationships. Let’s dive in…

Loving an adult child of an alcoholic

Before we even get into it, when speaking of intimacy in relationships, we are talking about all forms of close relationships – platonic, romantic, and any other relationships that might lead to one showing their vulnerability to another person. One thing that is evident is that intimacy in alcoholic relationships can be quite difficult to cultivate. And this is because kids od alcoholics find it hard to allow themselves to feel emotional attachment as well as allow their emotional needs to be met.

Most adults who have exposed to alcoholism site one common characteristic… difficulty in cultivating intimate relationships. Their past experiences impact even their adult romantic relationships.  Unfortunate as it is, this is the reality for most people. And the impact of the experiences of children of alcoholics can be very serious. However, there is some hope. And if you are a couple, together you can seek to overcome these effects and understand your partner better.

Well here are some of the things you need to know when dating the child of an alcoholic and how alcoholism affects relationships.

Signs that you are in a relationship with a child of an alcoholic

There are some common traits that you can be aware of that can make you see the effects of unloved child syndrome and alcoholism in the family of the person you are dating. Here are some of the signs they might show:

Survivors by nature

You will notice that in most adult children of alcoholic relationships, the partner who experienced alcoholism in their family is usually prepared for crisis. The exhibit signs of being comfortable with conflict and chaos. They are always ready to face crisis and are always anticipating for things to go wrong. Dealing with crisis is subconsciously their comfort zone.

They have trust issues

If the person you are dating has trust issues that have got nothing to do with their past relationships, chances are that those trust issues are coming from a deeper place – experiences of childhood. Adult children of alcoholics are used to the lack of stability in their childhood lives. This is because they have either been repeatedly lied to and also suffer from unloved child syndrome. Because of this, they are anticipating that you will probably turn out to be like the parents. This makes intimacy in alcoholic relationships difficult. They are afraid of being hurt if they trust you.

They tend to be perfectionists

As they turn in to adults, kids who have experiences with alcoholism in a parent tend to become perfectionists. They usually blame themselves for almost everything and always feel the need to be perfect. They tend to criticize themselves and suffer from low self-esteem. This striving for perfection makes them constantly seek for approval and affirmation that they never got during childhood. Which means, they might find themselves doing things they normally wouldn’t do just to please other people.

They like spending time alone

Isolationism is another sign you will notice when you are loving an adult child of an alcoholic. Usually when growing such people may have had to spend time on their own because the parents were rarely present. This need to be alone usually carries on into adulthood. They tend to be loners and prefer spending time alone. They feel that they are safer alone as opposed to being in a relationship.

They fear intimacy and have issues expressing their feelings

This is one of the other signs that manifests itself. It is usually because these kids have spent all their lives trying to bottle their feelings and emotions. Usually, its because they were constantly scared of annoying their alcoholic parents and spiking their rage. So in such a relationship, expect communication issues.

They fear authority figures

When a person grows up with at least one parent that is an alcoholic, fear is usually one of the things that they have. They grow up fearing the parents. So as adults, they tend to fear anyone who exercises or has some power over them. – from the boss to police, to even an authoritative partner. So they tend to always conform to the demands of these people even when these demands clash with their beliefs and values.

They get addicted to excitement

When dating the child of an alcoholic, you will notice that these adults thrive on drama. They are addicted to excitement which is meant to mask the emotions they didn’t have growing up. So, they tend to seek out dangerous things to do and are usually poor decision-makers just to gain some stimulation.

What you need to know…

The effects of adult children of alcoholic relationships are that they usually seem unsolvable. But with understanding and some communication, these are things that you can overcome. If you know that your partner has had such a childhood, try and talk to them about it. Remember not to push things though. Give them time to talk to you when they are ready to open up. You have the chance to rewrite the future together.

The most important thing is to work on building trust between the two of you. Try and increase communication between the two of you as well as increase intimacy between the two of you. When you are dating the child of an alcoholic open up yourself to vulnerability. This will help create a safe space for your partner to be open to talk and confide in you.

Also, try and do some research about their childhood experiences and how they have shaped how they relate to people and how they relate to you as a significant other. Try and understand how such experiences also affect how they communicate too.  The thing is, loving such a person who has had to live with parents that were or are alcoholics comes with its own set of challenges. Empathy, compassion, and understanding can smoothen these challenges.

Ask your partner if they are willing and ready to talk about their experiences. Depending on how traumatizing the experiences were, they may not be that open to talk about them at the initial stages of the relationship. One way to make them open up is to at least make them aware that you are there for them and that you are willing to listen. Also, try and build their trust by also opening up about the vulnerable experiences that you may have gone through. The more you share about your own experiences, the faster you will build a strong basis of openness and trust.

Communication is the key to redefine and separate your relationship from the alcoholism of the parents. You need to understand that we learn most of our behavior from our parents. Understand that what your partner considers normal in a relationship could be what they have learned growing up. If you can’t handle the challenges you are facing, you can always seek professional help.

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